{"id":1347,"date":"2010-06-03T23:33:00","date_gmt":"2010-06-03T23:33:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/katrina.effexhost.com\/index.php\/2010\/06\/03\/time-for-me-thursday-7\/"},"modified":"2025-01-12T17:57:07","modified_gmt":"2025-01-12T17:57:07","slug":"time-for-me-thursday-7","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifewithkatie.com\/index.php\/2010\/06\/03\/time-for-me-thursday-7\/","title":{"rendered":"Time for Me Thursday"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEg689lItoDpGa19-qjsxCmSnNQJqfnsgFUHs_MV8XQcLp_uf3yVe0Opbuy9iCbLA8QElXYshqX3hyCYEPSKwSe9IHS9AYWHo4kEKg4vmStOt33GsTIaUjjhTarYl4oyFjwo2p0VXXFab-F2\/s1600\/Timeformethurs.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 133px;\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEg689lItoDpGa19-qjsxCmSnNQJqfnsgFUHs_MV8XQcLp_uf3yVe0Opbuy9iCbLA8QElXYshqX3hyCYEPSKwSe9IHS9AYWHo4kEKg4vmStOt33GsTIaUjjhTarYl4oyFjwo2p0VXXFab-F2\/s200\/Timeformethurs.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5478694817789023826\" \/><\/a>Whew, what a day! I woke up feeling as if I hadn&#8217;t slept at all. I really don&#8217;t know what that&#8217;s about. Then, after puttering around the house a bit, the boys and I loaded up for a trip into Grand Rapids. Ben had an appointment with his neurologist. <\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>After meeting with Dr. DeRoos, I feel like we&#8217;re back at the beginning when it comes to our future treatment options. It turns out that Dr. DeRoos feels as if the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.stlouischildrens.org\/content\/medservices\/AboutSelectiveDorsalRhizotomy.htm\">dorsal rhizotomy<\/a> might be a good option, after all. We have another meeting with him in 6 months. That meeting will also include a physical therapist to test to see if Ben&#8217;s muscles are strong enough to handle the surgery. We&#8217;re also looking at the possibility of doing <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cincinnatichildrens.org\/health\/info\/orthopaedics\/home\/hamstring-length.htm\">hamstring lengthening<\/a>. Sometimes it&#8217;s just so hard to be a parent. You don&#8217;t want to make the wrong choice, especially when those choices include surgeries.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Dr. DeRoos wants us to work with Ben this summer doing bike riding and swimming. There&#8217;s only a few problems with that. <\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>1) The boys don&#8217;t have bikes and I can&#8217;t afford to buy them any. <\/div>\n<div>2.) Ben seems almost afraid to get on a bike for fear it will fall over and he&#8217;ll be hurt. <\/div>\n<div>3.) We don&#8217;t have a pool and the village doesn&#8217;t have a community anything.<\/div>\n<div>4.) The district where the boys live with their dad has one but a family membership is $50\/mo for residents and $65\/mo for non-residents. I don&#8217;t know if they&#8217;d let us do a resident one since they go to school there but even if they did, I can&#8217;t afford $150 for the summer.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Ok, I guess that&#8217;s more than a few. I&#8217;m going to have to do some serious thinking on how we can make this happen for him. What&#8217;s most important is that he gets what he needs to help him with his walking and strengthening his muscles.  I just don&#8217;t know where the money will come from. There&#8217;s the cost of the pool membership, bikes and the cost of gas to go back and forth to the pool. It&#8217;s 23 miles each way.  <\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>So, I guess I need some time to recenter and relax. What am I going to do? I&#8217;m going to take the boys upstairs, tuck them into bed and read them another chapter of the 2nd Percy Jackson book.  I&#8217;m going to spend some time giving them what I can give them.  My time and my love.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/s227.photobucket.com\/albums\/dd163\/kroets\/?action=view&amp;current=Name2.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i227.photobucket.com\/albums\/dd163\/kroets\/Name2.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Photobucket\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whew, what a day! I woke up feeling as if I hadn&#8217;t slept at all. I really don&#8217;t know what that&#8217;s about. 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